- 10:39 am
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Family Time. Sigh.
I have to go see my mother today. It is
probably going to be painful and exhausting, but I didn’t go home for Christmas so I need to at least attempt to keep up appearances and such.
So, to cheer me up when I get home, throw the answer to this in my ask box or reblog!
I HAVE AMNESIA! Lie to me about how we first met!
- 6:55 pm - Mon, Oct 28, 2013
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Q: Mass Effect? (I'm pretty sure that one isn't on your radar)
Oh man I am a GIANT Mass Effect fan. BUT I am clueless about ME3 so I can talk about that one!
Um. LIARA COMES BACK and there is totally smooching. And um, the Asari chick who runs the…um… bar/mob type planet/space station is also kickass and gets a turian girlfriend? And there is smooching. And Thane is dead? You don’t get to smooch him. But there are new characters you can smooch! Except they’re humans because they didn’t want to have a same gender alien romance, because that would be weird? Which is stupid. And the original ending was a ball of piss that totally ruined all the hard work they’d done up till this game so they went and fixed it with new downloaded content.
OH AND FEMALE KROGANS ARE AWESOME but you can’t smooch them.
I think this tells you a lot about my Dashboard.
- 10:41 pm - Sun, Oct 27, 2013
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Oh man, I feel bad but this has NEVER come up on my dash! I did a quick google image search (just to see what it was) and as far as I can tell there’s a wolf that looks like the paint wolf Amaretsu? from that video game? and there’s a miko girl who’s cute and she might turn into a chubby wolf and they fight. or make out. It’s hard to tell. Also, there might be a badass hunter with a spear.
- 10:28 pm
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test my dashboard osmosis abilities
send me an ask about a fandom i know nothing about and i will summarize it as best i can
OH MY GOSH PLEASE THIS SEEMS LIKE IT WOULD BE THE MOST HILARIOUS THING EVER
- 10:43 pm - Thu, Oct 10, 2013
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Q: My friend's girlfriend has cheated on her with someone else for a few months now and she keeps giving her chances to change and her gf just wouldn't stop. she said she was going to stop and she didn't. And -now- she says she's changing and not going to see that other person again. My friend keeps giving in to her. :( what should they do? She's threatened to break up with her twice already and now I'm afraid she's going to get hurt again by her gf -again-. I don't believe she can change.
Oh man anon, that’s rough. REALLY rough.
There’s nothing much you can do besides support your friend, of course, but I’m a bit curious about you asking what they should do? Honestly, usually these sort of relationships come to their own close. Either your friend’s girlfriend will respect her wishes and become monogamous with her, or your friend will come to accept that her girlfriend is interested in many people and doesn’t do monogamy and accept that, or they’ll breakup.
The latter being the most likely, to be honest.
The reality is that girlfriend has already proven (assuming your friend has spoken to her about this) that she doesn’t respect your friend’s boundaries and feelings in a relationship. Once is a mistake, but twice is intentional- and it sounds like it’s been much more than twice.
But love isn’t easy, and the heart doesn’t like reason, so your friend wants to give her chances because she cares for her, and that’s her choice and right. (This is where you being supportive helps a lot.) At some point, something will happen - either your friend will have enough, or her girlfriend will change how she acts, and their relationship will change.
And honestly, what it sounds like they need to do is have a serious sit down and talk about what each of them want out of a relationship, and see if they’re even on the same page. Often that’s the biggest issue couples face.
In the meantime? Remind your friend how awesome they are, how much they deserve love and someone who loves them, and don’t push them to do anything, but offer to be a sounding board and moral support and occasionally outrageously outraged bestie as needed, if you can manage it.
And remember to look after yourself too! Self care is important.
- 7:48 pm - Fri, Aug 16, 2013
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Let’s abuse the hell of the submission box on this journal, shall we? Also, I need new music and you guys have excellent taste.
So share with me songs that make you think of me? Bonus points if you tell me why.
(Please no spotify or lastfm links, since this Canuck can’t access them easily)
- 8:12 pm - Sun, Aug 4, 2013
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So I was thinking about that post that went around earlier about getting to know a person a lot better by listening to a song that’s important to them all the way through… And I was thinking, you know, it would be neat if there was a post people could reblog with a song or two you love and we could all get to know each other better?
hijacking this post so you know mine
M4 Part II (Faunts)
Take one down and pass it around! I’ve got a lot of songs that are close to my heart, but…this one here’s a joymaker. It means a lot to me. U_U
This is pretty neat! This song is pretty much me in a nutshell. 0w0
A Girl I Know (Sabrepulse).
I have a few theme songs, but they’re not always songs I love, so much as songs that are lyrically me.
But one song I love, always will, and will be played at my wedding and funeral is:
Flagpole Sitta (Harvey Danger)
And the song that currently has the most plays on my itunes?
(I always say you can tell a lot about how I’m feeling by the music I am listening to.)